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Tag: Family Traditions

  • It’s Beginning to Look a lot Like Christmas

    Although celebrating Thanksgiving with friends was fun, I am looking forward to celebrating Christmas with my family. Many families celebrate Christmas differently and again, because my family comes from Mexico, we tend to focus more on Christmas Eve. This is also due to religious reasons. My mom tends to decorate the house and makes it look like a Christmas workshop. It can be quite overwhelming but still very festive and beautiful. My favorite decoration is always the Christmas tree! She keeps it very traditional. It’s always green and has hints of red, gold, and white. She always makes sure to include any ornaments my brother and I have made.

    On Christmas Eve we tend to stay up past midnight. We start our night off by enacting the birth of Jesus. We carry a porcelain baby Jesus, pray, and lull it to “sleep” before finally placing it on a nativity scene. We then eat and pass around bags filled with holiday treats known to us as “aguinaldos navideños”,  to children and adults if there are any left over. The children usually light up party sparklers at the end of the night too. We usually stay up dancing and talking well into Christmas morning. The children usually make an attempt to stay up past midnight so that they have a chance to open their presents. My family and I have celebrated Christmas this way since I was a child, I wouldn’t change a thing about it but I would suggest adding a new tradition.

    New Traditions?

    I have always wanted my family and I to participate in a secret santa. I have always felt that there was pressure from each adult to get every single family member their own present. This can be costly and stressful during the holiday season. I think secret santa is a great way that everyone can end up with a present without the stress and over spending. After all, the holidays are about spending time with loved ones and creating valuable memories together.

  • Thanksgiving, Friendsgiving, and More!

    My family comes from Mexico and Thanksgiving is not a holiday we participate in. However, having been in the United States for many years, certain aspects of the holiday are adapted. We regularly like to have friends and family over for dinner and so we use Thanksgiving as another day to do so. There isn’t a specific dish that anyone prepares but my mom enjoys cooking a big ham that always comes out so decorative and delicious. This Thanksgiving was different for me.

    It has been two years since my parents have moved out of state and because I usually only get Thanksgiving day off, I’m unable to visit my family for the day. I instead find comfort in knowing that I have friends and family nearby who are more than willing  to have me over for this holiday. This year, I went to a friend’s house whose mom dedicated the entire day to preparing all sorts of dishes. They kept it very traditional with turkey, mashed potatoes, salad, Spanish rice, and sweet potatoes.  My favorite had to be the baked sweet potatoes, but I always enjoy sweet potatoes! Since it was warm enough, we had all gone to a nearby park to enjoy a late night walk.

    If I could have spent Thanksgiving at my family’s house I think I would have requested that we make penne alla vodka with shrimp, which happens to be my dads specialty. I would not be able to walk you through how he makes it because he has yet to pass his recipe on to me. Here’s a recipe for someone else’s shrimp penne alla vodka if you’re curious to try it! I would request this dish specifically because it is very nostalgic to me and my dad only makes it on special occasions. Remember to always share your gratitude for your loved ones, even when it isn’t a holiday!

  • The Beauty and Joy of Thanksgiving

    The beauty of warmth, thanksgiving, and togetherness make Thanksgiving special (Cavoto, 2020). It is a unique day characterized by traditions, great meals, and memorable times with family members. In many homes, thanksgiving is like a cacophony of cooking, cheerfulness, and story after story, making the house comfortable and joyful.

    For me and many others, thanksgiving is found in the kitchen; that is where families and friends gather and where, for a moment, the scent of roasted turkey, savory side dishes, and sweet pies fills the air, making a lasting memory for the holidays.

    One of the personal highlights of my Thanksgiving is the preparation of a beloved dish: Maple Glazed Carrots. The ingredients in this recipe might be simple, but it contributes sweetness, which is quite unusual for a savory feast. For this process, carrots are peeled and sliced diagonally for that rustic fashion feeling. The olive oil-coated slices are then sprinkled with salt and pepper and roasted to achieve the desired tenderness. Lastly, a generous maple syrup and butter drizzle is added, followed by a final 5-minute roast, resulting in a lustrous, mouthwatering coat.

    However, Thanksgiving is not just about dinner but also about appreciating simple things in life (Cavoto, 2020). It has since become a tradition for many, including me, to stroll after indulging in the plentiful meal. Local Park Nature Trail is a peaceful place where I enjoy going the day after Thanksgiving when I need solace and beauty. This place’s serene pathways and spectacular scenes are ideal grounds for reappraising the joys and blessings of life. Strolling through dry leaves, experiencing the mild coolness, and seeing the sunshine through the leaves in late autumn are relaxing moments of calmness and appreciation.

    These walks are not only an excuse to burn off those Thanksgiving calories; they are an opportunity to spend time in nature, take it easy, and appreciate the beauty of the natural world (Thompson, 2023). However, the falling leaves, fresh air, and peaceful mood on the road contrast with that loud holiday showing us the harmony of life. Thanksgiving, therefore, becomes more than a feast on food and family, but the beauty that encompasses us in nature, in simple traditions, and moments of silent self-reflection. It is a good time to appreciate the earth’s bounties, home warmth, and friends’ companionship.